Famous guests

On rare occasion over the years, I have had a chance to meet someone we would consider “famous.” When I was growing up in West Asheville, we even had “famous” people come to our house, not once but twice.

The first time was when I was about 8 or 9. My father was a veterinarian who worked for the U.S. Department of Agriculture. One evening, an older lady came by our house to get some papers signed. Something about selling some goats.

As soon as she came in, my father walked her to the bookcase and said, “See, we have your husband’s books.” I was confused. Why did we have his books? Had he given them to us? I knew to be seen but not heard and gave the matter little thought for several years.

It was only as a college student, appearing in a production of “The World of Carl Sandburg,” that I realized that had been Mrs. Sandburg at our house. The books were Carl Sandburg’s four-volume “Abraham Lincoln: The War Years.”

The other celebrity guests visited during the summer after my first year in college. The Chuck Wagon Gang was in town for a concert. My brother Benjamin was active in their fan club. The group was to have dinner at the home of the club’s president, a friend who lived nearby. Benjamin and I were invited to the dinner, and he arranged for the two of us to drive them from the hotel to our friend’s home — by way of a brief stop at our house to say hello to our parents.

Members of the CWG on our front steps with my parents and me (in vest).

Index

When famous people came to our house: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/02/24/famous-guests/
Hyperbole was a no-no: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/07/07/rounding-down-you-have-to-laugh/
Alma Mater — Thoughts on team support and being true to one’s school https://johnbecton.blog/2019/02/24/alma-mater-thoughts-on-team-support-and-being-true-to-ones-school/
Characters as humans — A review of an audience: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/02/25/characters-as-humans/

Things I wished I’d said, parts one and two plus one bonus example
https://johnbecton.blog/2019/02/26/what-i-wish-id-said/ and https://johnbecton.blog/2022/07/04/what-i-wish-id-said-round-two/
and now https://johnbecton.blog/2025/01/21/what-i-wish-id-said-one-more-example/

Signs of hope: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/03/05/signs-of-hope/
Service-less stations: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/03/19/service-less-stations/
A Final Four memory: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/04/08/a-final-four-memory/
A visit to Cuba: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/05/06/a-visit-to-cuba/
Obligatory moon-landing story: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/07/20/obligatory-moon-landing-story/

Homilies and homiletics
A communion sermon:
https://johnbecton.blog/2023/05/10/a-sermon-i-wont-get-to-preach/
The Golden Rule reconsidered: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/05/31/the-golden-rule-reconsidered/
Thoughts for Trinity Sunday: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/06/16/some-thoughts-for-trinity-sunday/
A modern telling of the Good Samaritan story: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/09/18/samaritans-today/
The coming of the Word: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/11/28/advent-anticipates-the-coming-of-the-word/
Trying to re-find Paradise: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/11/16/trying-to-re-find-paradise/
More about the practice of ministry:
Innovate? https://johnbecton.blog/2022/01/28/to-innovate-or-not-to-innovate/
Can one go “home” again? https://johnbecton.blog/2019/10/26/im-glad-i-went/
Selected anthem was about a different scripture passage: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/09/28/wrong-anthem/
A sort of homily:
Gates make good neighbors: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/10/11/celebrate-gates/
Also a sort of homily: Adventures in language – John B’s blog

Clothing
Wearing your Sunday best: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/05/27/wearing-your-sunday-best/
Wearing something different: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/08/15/something-id-never-worn-to-my-home-church-before/

About grammar and word usage
As one who cares: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/08/03/as-one-who-cares-about-language-usage/
When typos are OK: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/04/22/when-typos-are-ok/
Insufferable suffixes: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/06/13/insufferable-suffixes/
Stealth teaching: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/05/22/it-wasnt-about-coffee/
What they really mean: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/02/09/translations/
Can birthdays be belated? https://johnbecton.blog/2025/02/19/can-a-birthday-be-belated/
A 250-word sentence: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/07/13/250-word-sentence/
Using words in other languages: Adventures in language – John B’s blog

That time of year
Advent: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/11/28/advent-anticipates-the-coming-of-the-word/
“Merry Christmas” vs “Happy Holidays”: https://johnbecton.blog/2024/12/05/merry-and-happy/
First day of fall/autumn: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/09/23/autumnal-musings-on-the-first-day-of-fall/
Rosh Hashanah: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/09/29/happy-new-year/
Two more about Christmas:
https://johnbecton.blog/2019/12/14/teens-stumble-upon-christmas-spirit/
and https://johnbecton.blog/2020/01/04/twelve-days-leading-to-epiphany/
. . .and Hanukkah: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/01/15/and-happy-hanukkah/

The Beach
Sunrise photos: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/11/13/five-days-of-beach-sunrises/
Notes from one trip: https://johnbecton.blog/2020/11/13/notes-from-the-beach/
More sunrises: https://johnbecton.blog/2024/11/14/beach-sunrises/

Blue Ridge Parkway photos: https://johnbecton.blog/2026/09/04/blue-ridge-parkway-photos/

Diversity 101: https://johnbecton.blog/2020/02/08/racial-harmony/
Memories of a friend: https://johnbecton.blog/2020/03/18/memories-of-a-friend/
A little help from/for James Taylor: https://johnbecton.blog/2020/04/13/a-little-help-from-and-for-james-taylor/

Just for Fun
Short short stories: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/01/30/just-for-fun-ultimate-short-shorts/
My inventions: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/05/03/things-you-didnt-know-i-invented/
You made your bed. Now lie in it. You made your bed. Now lie in it. – John B’s blog

Mental health
Dealing with depression: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/05/23/what-i-might-say-about-my-mental-health/
Recharging batteries: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/07/12/easing-back-in/
Sort of related:
A million-dollar experience I wouldn’t take $2M to repeat:
https://johnbecton.blog/2024/09/08/a-million-dollar-experience-i-wouldnt-take-2m-to-repeat/
On being ghosted: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/10/27/a-couple-of-ghost-stories/
Forgiveness, parts 1 and 2: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/06/22/forgiveness/
and https://johnbecton.blog/2026/02/15/forgiveness-the-next-step/

Two re: Gender
Who can own a football: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/03/06/who-can-own-a-football/
We’ve been short on the acknowledgement: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/11/24/weve-been-short-on-the-acknowledgement/

Anniversary of our “new” home: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/07/22/30th-anniversary-of-our-new-home/
Earliest news story I remember: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/08/18/the-earliest-major-news-story-i-remember/
Like-dislike relationship with social media: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/09/15/my-like-dislike-relationship-with-social-media/
Things can go (away) without saying: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/10/05/things-can-go-without-saying/
Essential to life: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/10/22/what-are-some-things-without-which-i-could-not-live/

Looking Back:
Remembering childhood: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/11/27/reminiscence-of-childhood/
The good new days: https://johnbecton.blog/2024/04/12/the-good-new-days/

Favorite sounds: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/12/04/favorite-sounds/
Perfect happiness: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/12/13/perfect-happiness/
Scary stories: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/12/21/scary-stories/
Art vs. science in the kitchen: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/01/15/art-vs-science-in-the-kitchen/
A search for life’s meaning: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/02/03/a-search-for-lifes-meaning/
Random rants: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/03/21/random-rants-for-a-monday-morning/
Mays stole the show at my first MLB game: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/05/15/mays-stole-the-show-at-my-first-mlb-game/
One Friday night in college: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/07/20/a-friday-night-college-experience/

Parents
https://johnbecton.blog/2022/10/12/embarrassment-a-legacy/ and https://johnbecton.blog/2022/12/13/faith-of-our-fathers-and-mothers/

Health and fitness
Running away from aging: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/02/12/trying-to-outrun-a-scary-enemy/
Nature’s role: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/03/24/physical-benefits-of-communing-with-nature/

Two about early days in the workforce
First job: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/09/03/remembering-my-first-job/
Best boss: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/08/21/what-was-your-best-boss-like/
Two Related
How not to do a job interview: https://johnbecton.blog/2020/10/30/adventures-in-job-hunting/
A boost in status: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/03/11/a-boast-in-status/

Four-letter H word: https://johnbecton.blog/2024/02/24/that-4-letter-word/
The kindness of strangers: https://johnbecton.blog/2023/04/27/we-relied-on-the-kindness-of-strangers/

Less-than-welcome houseguests: https://johnbecton.blog/2025/02/27/how-not-to-get-invited-back/
Our need to “one-up” goes back to childhood: https://johnbecton.blog/2024/06/09/thats-nothing/
What it’s like to be a radio personality — for a short time: https://johnbecton.blog/2024/06/14/adventures-in-radio/

A conversation with AI about its emotions (or rather, lack thereof) https://johnbecton.blog/2024/10/14/how-do-you-feel-about-that-ai/

Facebook Related
Comments that miss the point: https://johnbecton.blog/2026/02/06/bless-their-hearts/
Like-dislike relationship with social media: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/09/15/my-like-dislike-relationship-with-social-media/
As one who cares about grammar: https://johnbecton.blog/2019/08/03/as-one-who-cares-about-language-usage/
When typos are OK: https://johnbecton.blog/2021/04/22/when-typos-are-ok/
Stealth teaching: https://johnbecton.blog/2022/05/22/it-wasnt-about-coffee/